Sunday, February 15, 2015

valentines day, love day, heart day, friends day.

it is called many things here, and we celebrated it yesterday.

the bunch of us were sort of planning to go out for dinner, but several of us started backing out because we didn't want to spend money on dinner.  we were also told that every place would be packed, even macdonalds, not kidding, so i suggested we do a pot luck.

everyone got on board, we started planning a menu, the girls at the apartment dragged the tables outside and lit the candles, sharon and julia put on the pasta and opened the wine.  kaisa made a fabulous salad, pietje brought bread from the french baker.  i made heart shaped paper placecards and preacher no-bake cookies and our first annual international friends day celebration took place!


this looks so cozy, doesn't it? but we laughed because we actually were sitting on top of the septic tank.  ha!  and the apartment door is open so the fan would blow out in an effort to keep the mosquitoes from ruining our dinner.

on the left below is sharon from portland, she is working with the midwifes.  as is canadian julia, on the right.


they are still doing construction on the upper floors, so you see we were working around scaffolding as well.


this is the adorable filipina miss jasmin, who is the social worker at the baby home.


this is kaisa, who is studying with the midwifes, she is from estonia.


in the middle is pietje, she is a wonderful lady from holland. her home church supports the mission of our volunteer nurse, annemarie.  pietje heard about the baby home and was inspired to come and spend a month volunteering with the kids.


sharon had everyone share something that they love about the philippines and something they have learned about themselves during our time here.  i hope you can see the quick friendships and genuine affection that we develop as we support each other.

completely off topic . . . 

this is a photo that i received today from sarah, who you might remember was visiting from abu dhabi during the christmas holidays.  i just love this picture!!! it gives you a real peek into my life here.  this could be any day in the nursery, you see i really do just sit and snuggle babies.


beth sent me this photo, and it is actually this scripture that inspired the name for the little children's home.



i hope you all had a happy love day and as much sweet fun as i did.

xoxo  jo







Sunday, January 18, 2015

new years eve in the philippines . . . holy wow!

let me start by saying that this was the most fun i've ever had on new years eve, and it will be impossible to describe here.

new years here is a giant holiday. everything is closed for a week long national holiday.

and they light up the sky and the streets on new years eve.  i was invited to celebrate at jeri's house with her family and i brought along our social worker jasmin, and baby isiah, who were both staying with me while the baby home was closed for new years.

we had a nice dinner and all sorts of american snacks, wine and champagne.

bernadette had this fabulous horn which doubled as a hat.


 

here is a little video of her adorableness:  bernadette nye

the fireworks here are cheeeeeeap and plentiful.


okay, get a load of this next one. this is a judas' belt. here is what wiki has to say about these:

Popular in the Philippines during New Year's Eve celebrations, it is known as SinturĂ³n ni Hudas (Tagalog, "belt/cincture of Judas," from theSpanish cinturĂ³n de Judas). The name comes from a dying Catholic tradition during Holy Week, wherein a chain of firecrackers is strapped to an effigy of Judas Iscariot and then lit up.
In El Salvador, the firecracker is known as Ametralladora or Metralleta (Spanish, "machine gun"), and also mainly used during Christmas and New Year celebrations.
A Judas belt consists of a number of small explosive rounds, each one typically 2" long and 1/2" in diameter, arranged sequentially along a common fuse.
The belt is either laid out on the ground or suspended from something like a tree or wall. The end of the fuse is lit, and as the fuse burns, it ignites each of the explosives in turn at a rate of up to 1000 rounds per minute. The noise produced is similar to that of a machine gun, but slightly irregular due to the inherent differences between the rounds.
Typical belts contain only two to three hundred, while those containing up to ten thousand rounds are not unknown.


and when i say these fireworks are cheap, here is an ad for judas' belt

LF Firecrackers JUDAS BELT 1,000 rounds 380php ONLY! Philippines
and when we do our math, P44 = $1 you see this is $8.63.  

cindy burke how many can i order for you . . . 


and of course we posed the baby with it!

 

i sooooo wanted to post this picture on facebook, but instead i just messaged it to the culprits involved.  uhhhh why don't we just take a pic of him with a couple of pistols and get the baby home shut down . . .

i did take a video of the judas' belt, which is completely awful because i totally did not anticipate the noise it would make and just screamed and went running for the house with the baby.  here it is:



the kids played with the philipino version of sparklers, and yes they are in the street, and yes half of them were barefoot.


a roman candle tipped, so sir darren walked out and righted it, and yes he is barefoot.



i soooo wish i would've taken more pics, but i was holding a baby all night.  if you zoom in on the one above, you can see they were setting off rockets in a wooden crate full of glass pop bottles. old school.


you must remember that these are private parties and not municipalities - we had huge in the air 4th of july style fireworks going off around us 360 degrees, and we were in antipolo up in a subdivision. 

here is a link to a video that someone posted on youtube. i hope you watch it because it shows EXACTLY what it was like here. crazy chaos party in the streets.


i was told that on new years day, you should carry coins in your pockets for good fortune in the new year. you should also put a bowl of 12 pieces of fruit on your table, and if you are wealthy, these are to be all different and all round.

over at the birth home, you can see that we are not wealthy but there was a bowl on the table with apples and such, and a bowl containing 12 orange balls and some round stickers.



okay, my birthday is january 3.  i was awakened at 6am with these lovely ladies singing outside my bedroom door.  there is something called a manyaneta, which is a wake up birthday party, usually celebrated at 4am.  we had singing and dancing and we sat in the living room on the floor and had coffee and egg pie. 


jasmin was the lead planner and contacted grace to get some of my favorite songs, which was how i ended up teaching the cupid shuffle to a bunch of philipino women at 4am.  :o)

you see what sweet and humble fun we have here? a pan of boiled water for instant coffee, milk in a box and pie with a candle in it cut up and eaten with a napkin. and lots and lots of love and laughter. can you imagine serving like this to guests at home?  but, it was so fabulous.


and then they tricked me into going to deborah's for a surprise party brunch. yeah, it would've been nice if i'd have taken a shower before all these photos, but oh well!

this was out in the side yard in deborah and darren's kubo. sort of the philippine version of a tiki hut

we had homemade cinnamon rolls, bacon, eggs, fruit, and coffee. which is called kape in tagalog, prn ka'-pay.


jeri gave me roses. she had planned to just get loose roses and then to ask everyone to give me one and say one word that described me.  but the lady at the flower market delivered her baby at the birth home and recognized jeri, so she 'fancied up' the roses into a bouquet for her and jeri just couldn't say no.  the roses were beautiful and the words were generous and full of love. 

these are the philipino pants that julia gave me.





they had katherine on the computer for a skype date and also invited lori french, who brought her son. she gave me some monogrammed stationary and deborah gave me a beautiful porcelain ornament.

on a side note, this fellow on the right is a friend of deborah's sons. his name is john paul, as many kids were named john paul after the pope's visit.  pope francis was here today and we already had our first baby boy named francis at the birth home this morning.  the philippines has a population of 100 million and is 80% catholic.

 

here is a picture of baby francis!




i hope that you can see that i have a wonderful group of people here who have taken me in and i hope that none of you are worried about me spending the holidays away from home.

actually, i really hope that one of you will come and spend the holidays here with me next year!

xoxo  jo

Sunday, December 28, 2014

Christmas in the Philippines!

okay, i will tell you that although most of these photos were taken by me, some of the ministry party pics were taken by other people and posted on facebook.  thanks for sharing, connie and isabell.

i'll start with a picture of a poinsettia at the market, i put those fellows in there so that you can get the idea of the size of this plant . . . bush.


there is a party that is given by the ministry for the staffs of the baby home and the birth home.  i didn't bring my camera, but here are a couple of pics.  the baby home and the birth home staff traditionally perform a dance number at the party.  this is the baby home staff and a couple of the kids posing in their dance costumes in front of the home made nativity that decorated the patio (party central) at the birth home.


you see how big it is there behind them.  it is fabulous.


i love most the baby jesus wrapped in a banana leaf.


this is connie and i, as she said, posing in front of a junk pile. :o)  there were games and food and lots of gifts to the staff from the ministry including a big bag of rice and a ham for christmas.


there was a party for the children that was given by the american embassy club.  this includes the kids from the baby home, and kids of the staff.  there were presents . . . 


music . . . 


facepainting . . . 


games with prizes like pencils . . . 


and a photo booth.  there is a disc with all of the photos floating around, and if i get my hands on it, i'll throw all of them up on a post. it was great fun, as you see. this is ate tonia and gabriel.


this is deborah, with her daughter bernadette, who was adopted many years ago from the little children's home.  deborah's parents founded the ministry and she has lived here in the philippines since she was 12.  after her father passed away, she took over running the baby home.  her mom jeri runs the birth home and her husband darren does all the admin.  their family is really my adoptive family here, and i don't know what i would do without them.


here again is the pic of me and cutie isiah.


this is nicole with her gifts. 


this is our beautiful and wonderful social worker jasmin with ezra.  if you recall, ezra was the first baby i took home when he wasn't doing well. he did not gain any weight between his 1 month birthday and his 2 month birthday.  you see we have over-acheived in our goal to get him to be a chubby and happy baby.  he, i must admit, is my favorite.  

on that note, at the baby home, every baby has a care-giver or two who favor them and they consider this to be natural and positive. they will tease and say, ate jo, your baby ezra has been crying all morning for his mama.  when a favorite is adopted, there are often extra tears from a mama or two on staff.




this is our volunteer nurse, annemarie and her red-head daughter nina, who is holding their favorite, louie.  she is a life saver to our ministry.  next is  her husband, hans, and their kids.  they are from holland, and have been missionaries here for two years.  he works in the slums of manila helping people to start and run businesses.  they also work at a TB clinic that is run by their ministry. beautiful people.





this is isabell, taking photos,which is her full-time part-time job here!


this is levi and nino.  levi and his younger brother were adopted from the baby home 17 years ago. they came back with their parents and sisters to visit the philippines for a few weeks. they also met their birth mom and their two younger brothers.  i spent a day touring around with them . . . that will be another post. 


the night before christmas eve, i was leaving the baby home and came upon some carolers. i asked them to go back and sing for the kids, which they gladly did.  



on christmas eve, i went to a party at the home of lori and dave french.  lori went to college with my viriginia friends abbe and jon gudeman. she went to the philippines to do her student teaching and never returned.  when i was looking for a position in an orphanage, abbe reached out to lori, who poked me on facebook, and the rest is history.  she teaches at faith academy, where she met and married the art teacher. :o)   they have two brilliant and charming kids, just a fantastic family. actually, she and abbe are the same person, so i can see why they are fast friends and you can see why i fell in love with her even before we ever met. 


there were about 30 people there, all bringing good old american party food, yay!  


since the baby home was closed, i brought along baby isiah and jasmin, who lives at the baby home but stayed with me during christmas.  although she is muslim and philipino, she is very far from her family and had great fun graciously experiencing an american christmas party!


i was holding the baby and didn't take a lot of photos.  some of the kids brought instruments and we sang along while they played christmas carols.  it is a family tradition that they read and act out (in costume) the christmas story.  it was wonderful fun.



on chirstmas morning, i got a text from deborah inviting me over for a breakfast of homemade cinnamon rolls and bacon.  and coffee.  real coffee, not the instant blech that i drink at my apartment! cinnamon rolls were our christmas morning tradition, and i appreciated and enjoyed it so very much.

then for dinner, we gathered at jeri's for traditional christmas turkey dinner. stuffing, cranberry sauce, yams and pumpkin pie with homemade whipped cream, etc.  the whole deal.  i brought mashed potatoes, which were yum.  check out jeri and her beautiful turkey!



this is katie, with isiah.  she and her friend sara, teach at an international school in abu dhabi. they came and spent time at the baby home over their holiday break, bringing gifts for all the kids that they gathered from the parents of their students. katie did a mission trip here when she was in college, and since it was too far to travel back to the states during break, they came here instead. pretty swell, right?! they were happy to be in a country where they could celebrate christmas.



i know that this is a terrible picture, but i still just love everything about it. deborah, darren and louie.


this is emma, who was interning at the birth home as a midwife student.  she returned to her home in australia the next day and we miss her very much.  fun loving, easy going, smart and caring, just a great person.


we had dinner by candlelight out on jeri's beautiful patio.  it was quite the crowd, there were people from the philippines, usa, canada, australia, holland, spain and korea.


louie pretty much looked like the rest of us felt at the end of the party.  tired, but happy!


okay, lastly and for the ladies, i'll show you the christmas gifts that i received.

this is the blouse that connie snuck for me into the gift exchange at her church.


this is a beautiful porcelain ornament from jeri.


i hung it here on the wall at isabells, where there was an empty hook.  also, sarah and karen bradley, please see what else i have hanging there . . .!!!


these are chocolate covered figs from abu dhabi, which are from katie and sara.


this beautiful tea light from jeri and sara.


this is a calendar from isabell. she had these made with pics from the baby home, just beautiful!  there is a verse with each month's photo, and this is the verse which inspired the little children's home name. 


i know i shared this pic of joy, but it is just too fantastic to omit.


and this little cutie pie . . . i have done some video chatting with her and her mom and auntie grace these past few days while they have been all together for the holidays.


all told, i had a really nice and beautiful christmas.  

i hope you all did as well!

xoxo  jo